How can I setup on normal cloud servers not using AWS which is too confusing for me
Here is a Linode guide although its still fairly technical: https://www.linode.com/docs/guides/high-availability-wordpress/
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@OP why do you assume that AWS is the only way to setup highly available WordPress stack???
how to configure WordOps high availability?
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